**Bagging the perfect man**

Yesterday, I was at the salon and was going through some fashion magazines, in one of them, a survey was done....lots of hot guys were asked what it was that attracted them to ladies..trust me, some said a great body..but majority of them said..., "there is nothing sexier than a confident woman with a great personality..who knows how to make a man still feel like a man."..
I was a little surprised..so bagging the "perfect man" has less to do with brazillian weaves and more to do with our personas...hmmmm...what exactly is confidence?what does a great personality mean.?.
I do not presume to know the answers, but I know that being confident is being sure of yourself,  your capabilities and knowing when to step aside..
 W hen a lady is confident, she is calm,composed, assertive, humble,has a nice sense of humour,and will not accept less than she knows she deserves..its in the way she walks, talks, maintains eye contacts, her entire aura and carriage..,her charm..,her charisma...,her style,.....
It has nothing to do with size, shape or colour,its that extra oomph factor that every woman has if she can reach deep enough......
So to all the confident ladies out there keep doing what u knw how to do best...and to the not so confident ones.....fake it till its real...

Hope

Hope...that thing that makes us hold on when all else falls apart..hope is faith in tomorrow.We hope to find love,we hope to drop those extra pounds, we hope to live the good life..... Everyday we live in the hope of a brighter tomorrow...
Hope is the fire in our bones that lights up our passions ...and makes us know that we can dare the impossible...so no matter the cards life deals us...let us keep hope alive...

Being Happy

Happiness is a state of mind.We are all capable of being as happy as we want.Being happy is not dependent on material possessions,on being single or married,or being the sexiest girl in the world (if it were Marilyn Monroe would not have committed sucide).Its far more than all of  this..
To be happy is to be completely at peace with yourself, and the world.It is a state of contentment..Loving yourself and extending that love to those around you.It is being grateful for the little blessings..it is living in the moment.
My life mantra is "Life is beautiful".See beauty in everything.Let us view life as a gift.The challenges we face are meant make us better versions of ourselves and teach us lessons we would probably never have learnt otherwise..
Being happy is a choice.Make a decision today to enjoy every moment of your life..Be happy